“What the Woman Wants is the Will of God” – is This a Blind Spot in my Consciousness My Mother is Responsible For?

Last Updated on July 14, 2026 by pg@petergamma.org

But I am now working on addressing this blind spot in my own consciousness. Is this a blind spot in my consciousness that originated with my mother?

My father ran a cheese factory. And my mother said about my father that he was the boss, and she had to do what he wanted.

We were a large family. Our father ran the cheese factory. And our mother took care of the family, cooked, and did the laundry:

But my father died as I was very young. And later on, my mother repeatedly complained about my brothers, saying they did everything their wives wanted them to do. And she said that so often, that it became something bad in my consciousness.

But the fact that men do what the woman want in a relationship, is the common practice in Tibet, Iran, and France. So why should it be different in Switzerland?