Last Updated on July 12, 2026 by pg@petergamma.org
“Ce que femme veut, Dieu le veut” is a French proverb
This proverb states that a woman always gets what she wants. It suggests that a woman’s will is so strong that it ultimately prevails and is even compared to a kind of divine will, rendering any resistance futile. It’s often used in a lighthearted or humorous context to emphasize women’s determination or perseverance. Although it’s a secular proverb, it plays on the idea that a woman’s desire is ultimately fulfilled, just as “God’s will” is supposedly fulfilled. In short, this proverb isn’t a theological doctrine but a folk expression that highlights the power of female desire.
But did not already Jesus Christ struggle with being tempted by a woman in the desert?
Yet this woman demanded that Jesus relinquish his power and divinity and submit to her without question. My advisor regarding women was an Iranian who said he was addicted to women. “Only what the woman wants,” was his creado. And always make it perfectly clear what you want from her, so in the way “I would come right now with you to have sex with you”, without speaking it out.
So, I tested this, and it works. But who can I keep that up in the long run? Does this nur turn us men into little, mindless children who are the slave of a woman? But yes, I too sometimes do anything for a woman, but only sometimes. Yes, there are moments when I gladly submit to a woman’s will and do anything for her.
My father ran a cheese factory, and according to my mother, he was the boss, and she had to do what he wanted. But my father died very early, and I was strongly influenced by my mother’s Christian upbringing. Statements like, “I would go with a woman right now to have sex with her,” weren’t part of our family’s vocabulary, and we did not discuss topic like this in public. But I am currently addressing this blind spot in my consciousness.
Brian Adams sang about this topic: “(Everything I Do) I Do It For You”?
But this can also cause suffering for men. My Iranian advisor on women’s issues once said he was addicted to women. And isn’t addiction also a form of suffering? Brian Adams says in the video above that he lies for a woman and dies for a woman. But Brian Adams didn’t die for a woman; no, he’s still alive.
But to continue this line of thought, women have also caused me suffering when I did everything for a woman. And I discussed this suffering with a therapist. And he said, “Don’t you feel like you’re stuck to this woman like tree bark?” And this statement from the therapist was very helpful for me personally in breaking free from being a slave of a woman.
And what about women and Christian values? How great is their compassion when they cause suffering to men? And isn’t compassion something very important for people who cultivate Christian values? What a woman wants is God’s will. That applies to me personally as well. But this statement isn’t theological and isn’t entirely serious either.